Newly Engaged?! Here are Your First Steps & How Something Blue Has Your Back!

This is your real talk guide for all things wedding planning… and how Something Blue fits into every step!!

Pop the champagne babe, you’re engaged! This is the moment you’ll look back on forever, so before you get sucked into planning chaos, let’s break down what actually matters right now!

And the best part? Most of these first steps are things we help with every single day!

Let’s dive in!!

Photographer: Liv Frueh Photography

1. Celebrate before you plan — we’ll handle the planning part soon enough

Take a beat. Enjoy the moment. Tell your people. You do not need to have a date, a venue, or a theme by tomorrow morning.

When you are ready to plan, that’s exactly where Something Blue steps in! We will guide you through decisions, so you’re not drowning in options or Googling “what do brides forget?” at midnight.

2. Narrow your dates (we help with this in our consults)

You don’t need one date. Just a handful.

Inside our planning & décor consultations, we help couples choose dates based on:

• Seasonal décor preferences

• Venue availability patterns

• Guest counts

• Budget considerations

You don't have to figure this out alone, we can help you!

3. Draft a rough guest list

We use this to help you find a venue & plan décor that fits your scale. Your guest count drives almost every planning decision, especially décor.

A 40 person wedding looks very different from a 200 person one, and the styling options do too. When you work with us for décor or coordination, your guest count helps us map out:

• Floor plans

• Tablescapes

• Ceremony layout

• Rental needs

• Floral quantities

You tell us the size, and we'll help you visualize the space.

4. Start researching venues, or let us give you recommendations

You absolutely do not need to tour 12 venues.

We know the local venues, what décor works best at each, and the logistics behind the scenes. Working with Something Blue means:

• We help you compare spaces

• We know which venues fit your style & budget

• We can tell you which ones need extra décor vs. which are already stunning

  
  

You can literally bring us your vision board, and we’ll point you toward the right places!

5. Book your photographer, and yes, we happen to know some great ones

Great photographers book out fast. If you don’t know where to start, we’ll connect you with trusted pros who consistently show up, deliver magic, and are amazing to work with behind the scenes.

Having us in your corner means no guesswork on vendor quality!

6. Build your wedding mood board

(We’ll turn it into an actual design plan!) This part is fun! Go on Pinterest and pin in your heart out!

When you come to Something Blue for décor, planning, or styling, we take your inspiration and transform it into:

• A cohesive color palette

• A décor plan

• A ceremony & reception design

• A floor layout

• A rental list

• A visual mock up

You don’t have to know the “how.” You just tell us the vibe, and we will make it real!

7. Set a realistic budget

You don’t need exact numbers. You just need to know your comfort zone.

Something Blue helps brides prioritize where to invest:

• Florals

• Rentals

• Styling

• Bridal gown

• Tuxes

• Day of coordination

We’ll be brutally honest (in the nicest way.) Telling you what will make a difference, and what won’t.

8. Book your bridal appointment — your Something Blue Experience

Our Something Blue Experience is designed to:

• Slow the process down

• Educate you

• Boost your confidence

• Help you explore silhouettes

• Connect your dress to your overall wedding style

• Set you up for stress free alterations

9. Start thinking about décor & coordination

We offer everything from simple styling to full “we’ve got this” support. Once you know your style and venue, this is where our team really shines.

We offer:

• Full décor & design

• Day of coordination

• Styled & done full service setup

• Rentals

• Ceremony & reception layout

• Color guidance

• Styling your details for photos

• Tear down so you don’t have to lift a finger

You bring the vision, and we bring the inventory, design eye, and muscle behind the scenes!

Ready to start planning?

Here’s how Something Blue fits into the entire process:

• Bridal Gowns & Alterations

• Décor & Full Styling (Styled & Done)

• Tux Rentals

• Day of Coordination

• Décor Consultations (free & low-pressure)

• Vendor Recommendations

• Bridal Wellness & Prep

Whether you're three days engaged, or three months in, our team can walk you through everything from the dress to the final décor glow up!!

Check out document below for a monthly checklist for your wedding planning!!